Being Shy and Dating

You may have everything - a great job, ample opportunity for a busy social life, and loyal family and friends. However, introverts can still feel that bit of anxiety when it comes to dating or putting themselves 'out there', so to speak.

Matchmaking events aren't for everyone - neither is traditional matchmaking. That's why VIP Matchmaking events offers personalized scouting as an option.

If endless swiping and next to no filters has you feeling discouraged or the idea of making conversation in large groups or going up to strangers gives you pause, we can cater to your specific needs.

Have a hard time coming up with the perfect first line? Our matchmakers can help. Prefer to make meaningful connections before going out on that first date. Our matchmakers can help.

Our matchmakers can help match you with a few carefully selected individuals who you are likely to be highly compatible with. The need to continually go out on dates is limited because you are much more likely to be matched with someone compatible early on compared to traditional database-based matchmaking. We do the work for you when it comes to pre-screening. If you are more comfortable starting to get to know someone via expressing yourself in writing in order to move beyond the small talk and towards more intimate topics, the scouting package is the perfect tool for you.

Introverts tend to feel distracted or even overwhelmed in loud or busy settings, so choosing somewhere relatively quiet is also something our matchmakers can help with when choosing that first date location. Date coaching is something online dating apps can't offer you.

VIP Matchmaking offers a wide variety of scouting services  and we are happy to tailor it to your needs - whether they be financial, guided by time-constraints, or your own social comfort level. Consider us today.